Relationship, 12 letter word depicts the mindset of numerous outside. Some have lost their identity being so much into this word, and some have worked their way into the history books of being secured later in life. The question is what makes a relationship work and what makes it spark out?
The answer could be given in books, discussions and interactions with many outside, but the REAL answer can only be given by yourself. There is no heart, there is just a brain to deal with all these bubbly emotions. Many ruin their lives finding the right relationship, in the process they've dated and done so many other partners, that they get used to the living, and when time comes to make that big decision, yes "Family Planning", you're too lost to be certain to hold one to one man/woman.
The mind has a job, to loiter around here and there, hence paving way for these emotions to seep in. Many instances have come where one is shattered to the core on his/her relationship not working, eventually leading to a rise in suicides or the psychiatric chart in the paper the next month.
The fault in it not working comes with the domination of one of the partners. Why can't you have a balanced play in it? Why is it that always girls need to compromise and give into this box? I must say that women today are dominating men, to such an extent that a man thinks twice before being a part of any such tag.
The image a man has today is of a sex addict, eh women? But I see women competing with them on that front as well. Respecting the other is the prime wand to a healthy relationship.
For me its respect, for you it could be trust and for the other honesty. FIND the chief trait and both of you should be settled on that, and you would come out not as two individuals, but ONE BEAUTIFUL ONE.
Love wisely, not slyly.
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